Shift your paradigm

We don't want to be stuck in a box anymore. 

We are so done with pleasing everybody else and starting pleasing ourselves. And yet we find ourselves in exactly that position. We go beyond and more to please others, making them fell good and helping them achieve what they want in life. 

We try to tell ourself that now it's over! Now I want to focus on me! Now I am the most important person in the world. And seconds later we try to fix everybody else's problems. 

Why is that? 

It's easier to fix other peoples problems than our own. Then we wouldn't have do deal with emotions, feelings and thoughts that we have stored so far away, that we have forgotten where. And we would certainly not want to deal with them ever again. But they are there. They pop up ever so often to remind us of the dark side that exists in our minds and takes over when we don't pay attention. Only to take the control over us and lead us on the wrong path. 

Let them pop up and tell them to go away. they don't belong to us and we are more than capable of sending them away.Tell them to get lost and leave you alone. Replace them with what ever suits you and serves you in a positive way. 

Fx. I am not good enough, I am ugly .. change them to Hell yes I am good enough and the most pretty unique being on this earth. 

It might not work the first time.. but soldier on and at some point you will have convinced your subconscious mind that this is the truth.  Cause this is what it's all about. Making your subconscious mind believe in what ever story you tell it. When the subconscious mind is convinced it becomes the truth.

Plant that seed in your mind that says of cause you are okay, of cause you can do it and let it grow. A seed doesn't ask questions its programmed to blossom and grow into what ever it's ment to be, and so are your mind.

We are  programmed from childhood and believe that we have to work really hard in order to get what we want. Work hard in order to achieve great things. We are told that hard work is the only way. 

See we didn't know any better. Our subconscious mind were open to anything our parents, surroundings, teachers or whoever said was the truth that it became our truth as well. We started believing that this had to be the truth so why seek out something else? 

But now that you are wiser, you know how to shift. How to make the bedst in life and become so much more than you ever dreamed of.